Make the best use of your time, perspicacity, opportunity and other stupendous things that you own
Have you ever failed to meet your lofty expectations? Have you ever developed some noxious feelings about yourself? Well, a human being does get sometimes annoyed with himself and that I reckon is pretty normal. What if a person persistently makes himself feel down? Can those bitter feelings hamper his progress and desert his divine journey with unprecedented setbacks? I would reply with an emphatic yes.
Unless you value yourself and put yourself at ease, you won’t be able to achieve good things in life. What good is it to harbor negative self-concept and irk the innocent nerves of our brain? People of the contemporary era usually succumb to worthlessness and other mental viruses.
We have a hard time thinking about ourselves and appreciating the acumen we own. Don’t get me wrong. We don’t have to brag about our potencies and charge our heads with filthy ego. That would be absolutely baleful for our conscience and integrity. We need to raise ourselves in our own eyes to uplift our self-esteem.
When our self-esteem raises our produce rises. We feel comfortable and blessed. With the help of high self-esteem, we become top performers and end the petty fears of our life. We get that true satisfaction and happiness.
Do you behold yourself a mere biotic thing of this universe? If you do, you need to change that perception. You are not what you think you are. You are what you really are! It may sound freakish but try to understand this important thing.
The perception you harbor about yourself can be wrong. That can absolutely veil your true self. For this reason people need to look within and discover themselves. You are not a mere living thing, your presence in this world matters.
For the people who surround you, you matter. For your family that nourishes and cherishes you, you matter. People seek your help because you matter. Your loved ones expect good things from you because you matter. People communicate with you or cultivate relationship with you because you matter. Don’t ever try to make yourself feel down and unwanted. Value yourself and people shall flock to you.
Nobody can replace you
Let me acquaint you with the fact pertaining to you. Nobody can replace you in this world because you wield something peculiar that others lack. You can’t afford losing that peculiar ability into thin air. You are absolutely irreplaceable. Nobody can perceive this world the way you do. Hence it is necessary for us to live our own life and stop imitating people. Don’t take yourself for granted and never regard yourself as Inept.
Stand by yourself
Don’t curse yourself just because you fail to compete with this rapacious world, just because you fail to get a job, just because you fail to crack any competitive exam. How can you be so brutal to yourself?
For those who can comprehend me I say, stand by yourself no matter what people tag you with, stand by yourself no matter how many times you fail, stand by yourself no matter how defiled you think you are.
Be assured that you can be the best motivator of yourself and worst nemesis as well. Don’t injury your nervous system with your negative thoughts, don’t give cold shoulder to yourself, you have every reason to stand by yourself in hilarity and calamity.
With wide open eyes peep though your window, see, the birds exalt you, the breeze hums songs in your favor, the sun shines brightly to guide and fill you with eternal shine, see the nature stands by you. Why can’t you stand by yourself? What holds you back? Think and answer these queries. You can’t squander your pricy jiffs in bemoaning yourself. Stand by yourself and cultivate a promising relationship with yourself.
Human beings have an inherent affinity to love and accept the love of others. Robert Morley once said, “To fall in love with yourself is the first secret to happiness”.
You know because, love is the most precious and consecrated gift we can give to others. Would you mind introspecting yourself and figure out if you love yourself? Unless you love yourself, you can’t love others. In order for you to be successful, you need to comprehend the wisdom of self-Love.
Self-belief is a pre-requisite to achieve something worthwhile in life. Unless you believe yourself, people can’t believe in you. When you sense people don’t believe you, the feeling of being worthless and unwanted arises. When you don’t believe yourself, you scarcely get that intrinsic ignition to make things happen. You start overlooking your flair and hence drown yourself in worthlessness. Self-belief gives you confidence and makes your path more smoother and beautiful.
Value your owndoms, your acumen and your presence in this world. Build a positive self concept and never compare yourself with others. Make the best use of your time, perspicacity, opportunity and other stupendous things that you own.
Author is pursuing B.SC Nursing, South Campus, University of Kashmir